Thursday, January 14, 2010

Finding your life Calling

Some of us do not really know what we have come here to do. That is not necessary, there are several people that do. Find what interests you, whether you care about the environment, or animals, or even metaphysics, and reach out to help people that do
Speaking for myself, all the help I can get is greatly appreciated and it makes my life alot easier to reach more people.
Grab your yellow pages and look for organizations that are in line with your interests.
But do it, do not make excuses. By reaching out to the people that are in line with what you enjoy, you may find that you find a deeper calling.
Throwing our life away and thinking we are not needed is wrong.
Everyone is needed and believe that you can make a difference and do it.

Following my dreams

Where did my dreams begin? When I was young I was a very independent girl. I was raised in England and I would travel 90 minutes to and fro to get to my school in the height of London. I took two trains and a bus to get to Camden Town from my home town.
There was never any fear or concern in those days. We are fearless in those days.
I think over time, and many boyfriends later, we become more stifled in our lives, we allow others to tell us who we are and what we should do and be.
Others always think they know what is good for us.
But only we know what we want in our hearts.
Nobody else can decide that for us.
Girls grow up believing that all they should want is to get married and have kids.
That is not for everyone. Boys grow up being told that they should want high powered jobs and be rich to take care of those girls. This is also not right.
Everyone is an individual.
Some people's dreams are to be a homemaker and they should follow that, but some people's dreams are different, like mine.
People come into this world for different reasons and we all need to examine ourselves on a deeper level to see what our dreams really are.
Do we want to paint? Do we want to write?
What truly makes us happy?

I love to speak and help others, this is what gives me the greatest happiness.
Its important to find our deeper mission in life.

life decisions

My career was never really a choice it was a calling. Something that I have come here to do. It started when I was twelve and I first saw a medium in England at the spiritual society of Great Britain. I was so impressed and it sent me into a lifelong study. I tried for several years to be a regular girl and work in Banking, finance and Real Estate but that just wasn't for me.
I wanted to help people and make a difference in their lives. Not by giving them money but by empowering them to let go of their habits and adictions, undertanding themselves on a deeper level through Hypnosis and Past Life Regressions and Empowering them to have what they want in life.
I believe some of us have come into this world for alot more bigger things than getting drunk and watching sports or going to a unfulfilling job.
I am not saying Sports is bad, I am simply saying that if it takes you away from your calling and you spend endless hours just sitting in front of a TV set. What are you really doing with your life?
Too much work is not good either.
We need to grow as souls and fulfill a deeper purpose inside ourselves. We are not robots.
We are spiritual beings that are here to learn and grow.
In order to do this, its important for us to value ourselves and our bodies and minds.
Why?
Because this is our life and we may not get the opportunity to come back to the earth as quickly as we have in the past. There are many souls that want to be born.
But not many conscious parents.
What is a conscious parent?
A conscious parent is someone that wants to teach by example. Some one that realizes their children are individuals and need their talents nurtured, whether they are socially acceptable or not.
So if a boy wants to dance, let him. If a girl wants to mountain bike let her.
A conscious parent, knows that what you feed your body is important.
So make sure your kids eat fruit and veggies and high vitamin foods.
A conscious parent is someone that knows that there are no boy roles or girl roles.
Men need to know how to cook and clean.
Just like Women.

Strive to be all you can be in life and you will not be dissapointed.

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Life changes

It has been a very difficult transition to go from being a family to being a single mum. It was very unexpected but I am getting stronger each day.
I have found that doing empowering exercises and talking to friends has been the most helpful getting me through the pain.
Even if family and friends mean well, sometimes they can push you into things that you are not ready for.
Healing is a process, and we cannot rush the steps we need.
Be kind to yourself and remember to do the things that make you happy.
I find comfort from walking my beach. Its miles of hard packed sand and wonderful to clear the mind. I also find peace at night soaking in the bathtub with soft candles.
Its my time away from the kids.

Honor yourself and you will be able to find strength and courage.
Happy New Year