following your Heart

In life we are faced with so many situations that call for us to question ourselves.
We have all experienced alot of childhood pain, and often when we have relationships we allow that pain to rule. Most of the time we are unconscious of what we are doing.
In order to free ourselves we have to do alot of healing work.
This can be done through journaling, talking to a professional and working through that pain or doing affirmation work.
In order to have the kind of relationships we all truly want, we have to open our hearts to change and to love.
No one can do this for us. We have to become our own detectives. Where did the pain begin. Who caused the pain. Were we truly innocent and if so, what may be needed is forgiveness for the other persons lack of consciousness.
We have all done things we regret, but to move beyond that we have to forgive ourselves and others.
There is no other way.
Be willing to change.
Love and happiness is worth it.